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25 Questions to Ask the Guy You're Interested In

Writer: MadisonMadison



Whether you're driving to your first date and need conversation questions that will show you his heart and character...or you get nervous and run out of things to say around your crush... these questions are ideal for the phase of the relationship where you're just getting to know them. In the future I will do a list of questions to ask when you're in a dating relationship, to help you take things even deeper!


I asked the four thousand guys and gals on my Saved Singles page what their favorite questions are for getting to know someone...and many of them are on the list below, along with many that I've used personally!



  1. If your relationship with God could be represented by a room in your house, what room would you liken it to and why?

  2. What is something you've changed your mind about recently?

  3. If you could give a 5-10 minute TED talk about anything, what would it be about? Alternate wording: What is a topic you could discuss for hours?

  4. What is something you're looking forward to right now?

  5. What is something you've been noticing about God as you read scripture?

  6. What do you enjoy about your work? What is the hardest part of what you do for a living?

  7. Tell me an unpopular opinion you have/something you believe that is controversial.

  8. What's something that you were interested in five years ago, but you aren't now?

  9. What's been the best part of your week thus far?

  10. What do you like to do in your free time?

  11. What would an ideal Sunday look like for you? What does a normal Sunday look like for you?

  12. What is something God has been teaching you lately?

  13. What is your salvation testimony?

  14. What's your story in a nutshell?

  15. What's your favorite book of the Bible and why?

  16. What does being a Christian mean in your life personally?

  17. Tell me about the last time you experienced joy. What were you doing?

  18. What books have made an impact on your life?

  19. What are your top 5 favorite movies?

  20. How do you stay connected to the Lord throughout the day?

  21. What is something that increases your love for Christ?

  22. What are you most likely to splurge on? What are you most likely to save on?

  23. As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?

  24. What's your mother's/father's name? What is your favorite thing about her/him?

  25. When boundaries do you have with entertainment? What things are you not okay with/skip/avoid and why?



Comment and let me know if you try any of these out! And I would love to hear any other questions you would add the list!




 
 
 
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